Seeing this prompt, my mind was drawn aback to a certain post I made some time back concerning this same subject matter of failure. I tagged it ”Failure is the Pillar of Success.” At some point I myself was finding it that idea to be ridiculous. However, I was able to reconcile within me how that stands true-to a very large extent. Not withholding, it's possible to attain a measure of success without facing a failure in a venture. However, some great successes require some big failures.
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Undeniably, our minds react in a defensive way against any form of failure. We hate to lose, we hate to fail. This in a way has structured our minds to be abhorrent towards failure and any signs of it rather than embrace it as a stepping stone towards success.. A hard truth is that we can't attain a level of success in life without a measure of failure behind the scenes of the success stories.
I've come to embrace failure as an integral part of my success journey, for whatever course I was embarking on. With every plan and strategy, well articulated and put in place, failure can still be a possibility. My mind has learnt to accept that. Some long time back however, such won't be said to be the case. Like while I was in school...
So I had a business idea. In a bid to see fruitful results, I sought advice to help me through;if that was feasible and wise or not. It looked like a good idea, but there was skepticism from the advice I got. It then looked like an unfruitful venture. I still felt the need to maybe do more of a feasibility check, sadly I couldn't or rather didn't. It guess I didn't see it succeeding, though I was encouraged to research more on it.
Later I discovered a friend invested into that idea. No, we never discussed it and he never heard it from someone close to me-it wasn't a totally new idea, so I got why he thought of it. I could just imagine what it would've meant to my finance.
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I could go over a thing a number of times if it meant doing so, so giving up wasn't really much of a thing. I had issues with a subject in school; right from primary education. When it looked like it couldn't get any better, I pushed on still. It will be good to note that several lessons were taken to find footing in the subject, yet it was like a failed effort. My exams and test scripts reflected it all.
Somehow, keeping the right spirit and the help of God, I later became well aqaunaited with the subject that I later taught people while in secondary education. It had indeed felt like a continuous failure in that aspect, and I just imagine what it would have been like had it been it didn't turn out this way. Well, today I find joy teaching others that very subject.
Is failure a prerequisite for success? Maybe, maybe not. Nevertheless, one way or another, we learn from failures to succeed-not necessarily our failures but that of others that we don't have to take that path ourselves. On the hive blockchain, I'm yet to come across that which I fear to get engaged with. Maybe when I explore more, I'll do; chuckles.
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