I'm saddened to hear that you both have experienced similar situations 😔💛 my condolences, and my thoughts are with you 🙏 It's an incredibly difficult thing to make sense of.

For me, personally, I knew it wasn't the right time. I was going by MY PLANS, MY TIMING, not God's, and I believe I ended up losing baby because of my health and stress.

As you said, there is nobody else that we can turn to for answers except for God 🙏 It's a difficult subject and I appreciate your input on the matter. Take care, and enjoy the rest of your week!